The common response to someone not feeling happy is to have
them to think of positive things that they should be grateful for. Does that imply that the person is not
grateful for the blessings in their life? That will be discussed later. So, if a person then is not happy even if they
are grateful for what they have in their life is one to then think about those
who are not as fortunate? That will be discussed later as well. Of course, someone will try to say that you
are complaining and then circle toward the think of what you have been blessed
with, think of how bad it could be, think of those who are not as fortunate,
God won’t give you more than you can handle, keep thinking positive, trouble doesn’t
last always, etc. However, even with the
thought and considering all the other facets…still not happy!
Grateful yes, sure could be in a place that is worse than I
am in now. However, either way I would
not be happy. I truly do believe a person
can be grateful for what has been allowed in their life and still not be
happy. Many folks have all the riches in
the world and are grateful to have been able to use their talents to achieve
great heights. It does not mean they are
happy.
Those that are not as fortunate, I am not able to determine
their happy. Am I to assume that just because
those individuals are not in the position, I am in that the default mode is
automatic despair? I am not sure about
that. Some individuals thrive and are
content with less. Some are content with
the bare minimum as their maximum. I am
not able to quantify their specific life threshold. However, the topic comes back around to the subject
of happiness.
It is more apparent to me that I am not happy. If the reset button could be pressed, I would
press it as quick as possible. I had the simple realization this morning that
others will leave your shit on empty as long as they achieve their mission.
Some won’t even tell you of the status and let you find out on your own and
then you spend your time trying to make sure you can function with the little
that is left until you can just pour into it with the little that you have.
This has been written and said before and I will stick to it. I care about me. I love me. I will not even fathom that anyone
else has my back but me! I will get my happy back. There might be some grand changes on the
horizon, but I will get it.
I Love You, But God Loves You More!
